tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6655974554267650893.post4207184263990868..comments2024-03-27T10:17:14.784+00:00Comments on Eclectic Ephemera: Popular with the ladies...Bruce Partington-Planshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11336280062885272950noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6655974554267650893.post-80486192390283235872011-05-24T07:51:22.344+01:002011-05-24T07:51:22.344+01:00I think its a survival strategy, chatting. Imagine...I think its a survival strategy, chatting. Imagine how boring life would have been when we were all foraging and hunting for us girlies, ooh there's a berry, oh look another berry, here's a good berry. Hence the need for extended conversations about which fur wears best, and which men bring home the best meat. Men however just need run after a mammoth and hit it with a sharp stick, so not a great need for chit chat!! And while I'm on a roll look what happens to men when they get near a barbeque!!! Ug, me man, me cook meat on fire!!!! (must be said in a deep voice) Lol. As for prizes, just choose something that you would like to win, If ladies wouldn't like it, they wouldn't enter!!!! XAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6655974554267650893.post-23144136945065526392011-05-04T21:20:41.192+01:002011-05-04T21:20:41.192+01:00Well, some very interesting theories to supplement...Well, some very interesting theories to supplement my own - thank you ladies! I'm glad to see I was right not to worry about the contents of my forthcoming give-away either!<br /><br />PD - I fear you may be right. There's only so many times we chaps can go on about the pattern of a tie, or the cut of a suit, or the style of a shoe! You ladies certainly do seem to have a far greater opportunity to discuss [vintage] fashion.<br /><br />Mim - that's a good thought, I hadn't considered it. Yes, now you mention it a lot of the blogs I follow that are about certain aspects of vintage - architecture, technology, politics etc. - are written by men. We do have our particular interests and I can understand wanting to focus on them more than general themes.<br />I don't mind following all you lovely ladies' blogs, even if they do contain "frocks and frou-frou" :-D (and you are doing a good job catering to both genders, Mim). I've always been a firm believer in the old adage "know your enemy"... erm, I mean "how the other half lives" - only joking! Seriously, I think growing up with 4 sisters and a disproportionate number of female relatives has left me far more sympathetic to women's perspectives(!).<br /><br />Perdita - that certainly corresponds with my understanding of the different ways men and women communicate, from what I remember of my studies. Men, it has to be said, are very competitive and aggressive in groups whereas women tend to be more co-operative and encouraging and that can manifest itself even online. I'm afraid I've noticed it in some corners of the vintage æther as well, which is a shame. For chaps like myself and your Lordship, who perhaps don't feel the need or desire to assert themselves in such situations, I agree that it can be rather off-putting. I can understand the desire for privacy too; this blog was/is based around general national/international vintage happenings more so than my personal adventures (mainly because I rarely have anything to tell - it would be a boring not to mention sparsely-populated blog if it were just about me!) and it has only been within the last 6-12 months that I have felt comfortable blogging about my own finds/experiences, bolstered by the anonymity afforded by an assumed Internet name. ;-)Bruce Partington-Planshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11336280062885272950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6655974554267650893.post-65753297901845025382011-05-04T20:39:30.721+01:002011-05-04T20:39:30.721+01:00His Lordship follows several blogs, but I don'...His Lordship follows several blogs, but I don't think he would write himself as he isn't into writing and is rather private. I can't speak for men in general, but that is just his way.<br /><br />What he does mention to me (as 'classic town and country wear with a bit of mod thrown in' man, and hence a regular vintage/repro buyer) is that he notices some male vintage fans seem to want to 'win' some untold competition. There can- with a few men he's met- be a little bit of 'one upmanship' (my tweed is rarer than yours old chap) or very pedantic put-downs (Oh, your tie is repro...heheh) whereas vintage women share their ideas more without the need to establish a pecking order and play with the rules more flexibly. They might show off, but without the whole...'alpha' thing, if you see what I mean. Perhaps blogging lends itself to that, whereas events and so forth (where you do see plenty of chaps) allows a bit more manly banter face to face?Perdita Tinselhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01741015473009270250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6655974554267650893.post-39498970401446692122011-05-04T12:24:30.375+01:002011-05-04T12:24:30.375+01:00Flowery and pretty I can cope with, but pink? BLEU...Flowery and pretty I can cope with, but pink? BLEUGH. ;-)Miss Magpiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10899889154015378547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6655974554267650893.post-90126191971758559902011-05-04T09:06:45.225+01:002011-05-04T09:06:45.225+01:00Is it because many men tend to post about more spe...Is it because many men tend to post about more specific vintage interests, such as only old-time radio, or only vintage cars, rather than masculine vintage in general? And then they tend to read blogs on their specific interests rather than the wider vintage blogs. Perhaps in some cases they're put off looking at general vintage blogs because they feel it's all going to be frocks and frou-frou. <br /><br />I'd love to see more blogs from vintage chaps; I've tried to keep mine relatively gender-neutral but stuff about clothes and hair *will* keep creeping in.Mimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01578612522819952936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6655974554267650893.post-78902935506803901552011-05-04T02:20:09.428+01:002011-05-04T02:20:09.428+01:00For myself, I don't mind if it is unisex or ev...For myself, I don't mind if it is unisex or even masculine :) But that is me :pSpinnerettahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18335780710513434157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6655974554267650893.post-82017582815062565842011-05-03T23:24:16.219+01:002011-05-03T23:24:16.219+01:00Well Mr P-P, fashion in general is dominated by wo...Well Mr P-P, fashion in general is dominated by women, and vintage fashion is just an extension of that. My chap is always complaining there isn't enough men's fashion commentary. Could this be because men's fashion is a little (whisper it) boring? I mean purely in comparison to the feathers and sparkles and colours and skirt lengths and prints and so on in womens fashion. The nuances of mens fashion are finer, and therefore harder to expand upon a great deal.<br /><br />Choose what prize you like, I say. I am a lady, and I like ties, braces, and leather cigarette cases as much as anything girly and flowery. Any vintage girl worth her salt would be proud to use Katherine Hepburn as her menswear pin-up.Penny Dreadful Vintagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00658769790784076024noreply@blogger.com